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AuthorAyşenur KamalJune 16, 2026 at 5:48 AM

Parenting despite the internet: on the conflict of loyalty

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Parenthood, at its core, embodies the spirit of mutual support that is naturally expected in the shared journey of life. In contrast, practicing parenting despite the presence of someone who acts against you and drains your reserves through hostility is among the most difficult conditions a person must manage and overcome in life.


Being immersed in such a parenting experience evokes in a person a profound sense of misfortune that transcends all other hardships.


For raising and nurturing a living being is, in fact, a remarkable opportunity filled with deeply rewarding human moments and exhilarating possibilities that align with the very essence of human nature.


When a person longs to experience the warmth of family in a single photograph, only to find that this hope transforms into an inescapable chain that undermines even the will to endure alone, it becomes a profound disappointment. It is like being cast into depths never anticipated, while trusting a parachute meant to lift you upward; what one finds in this moment is a pivotal part of change—one of the most serious forms of growth, revealing that nothing in life will ever be the same again.


Among the foremost challenges faced by individuals co-parenting after divorce is finding ways to uphold their parental role in the face of hostility and negative narratives directed by the other parent toward their own child. This issue demands attention, as failing to address it early can lead to consequences that are difficult to remedy later.